Vamos pa'l agua..que hace calor...

To let you know, i've been fine throughout tropical depressions, Ike and Co. Here, in the DR, we're only mildly concerned about el temporada ciclonica, hurricane season. I have a number of things working for me- I live on a hill and my host brother says he's willing to drive me anywhere on his motor. Then, there's the Peace Corps alert system and Dominican COE, Center for Emergency Operations. Did I mention that a tropical depression is off the coast of Puerto Rico as I'm writing this? Eso no es na'

I'm sorry I haven't been in touch in so long with many of you. It's happened in the DR, too. I just saw my two host families here after a year!! My time has been just been spent up with my community. Like, what you see above. After refocusing at the beginning of the summer (June or so), we spent time with the youth group and went on trips to the river (above) to motivate and restart the group. The summer has been a time of trying to push the youth to be involved in a community house-building project, a boys and girls summer camp put on by my counterpart organization, and other workshops provided by different offices...We can say that there is not only a a new directiva or board of directors and a radio program, but a new spirit in the group...

Some things you gain and some things fall by the wayside. Everything is everything. Or, on another note, Lauryn Hill: You might win some, but you really lost one. Take basketball practice, for example. After a group of characters entered into the school bball court, it got cut by the school director. A new cancha opened, a youth took charge of coaching the kids in preparation for a tournamet and I wanted to help out, but then interest fell off (and, some kids think he ran off with the kids' money...Hmm.. ). But, by the same token, i feel i've gained in deciding where I need to spend time, re-establishing connections with my host family, and now feeling at home in the culture and language. How can I explain?

I found myself one day...

Doing shuttle democracy, discutiendo, holding an argument with one group about how they should not take jokingly down the volleyball posts and pleading with a coach to give volleyball practice to this group of "disorderly" girls.

I found myself one day...

Walking around with a community leader, advising people about the coming hurricane. I'm not a saint: I can guarantee you it was her idea.

I found myself one day...

Floating a cooler up a river. It's a lot harder than it sounds. We ended up chasing bottles of soda back down with the current, lunging for packs of ice...

I found myself one day...

On the radio, talking about my youth group and praising them for doing what they do. Shoutouts to Chad and Wazir! lol.

I found myself one day...

Up in a tree, looking for limoncillos, throwing them down to my host-sister.

I found myself one day...

Showing off my two new puppies, Moises and Nana, to my neighbors like well, a proud dad...

We'll have to see how things go from here. We're hoping to move forward in the groups and plan to be sustainable. To get more done and get to know more people. To see friends and family. ..Erykah Badu: The world....keeps...on...moving....

Now, let me get out of the rain and go pottytrain my pups...

Cuando el buey hablo...

So, cuanto tiempo...such a long time...in which we haven´t chatted...

Here, time has been moving and, like anywhere else on the planet, one gets caught up in the demands of the moment. Probably because of this, those times of reflection, rest, and catching up with friends then become extra-special. I stop and think about all of the moments that have past. And, now get to share a few of them with you. I guess what I´m trying to say is that I´m glad you´re here! Much love...

You may ask: What´s been going on? The same with the diversity of every new day and moment. My daily schedule has revolved around basketball practices, youth group and community association meetings, English classes, and planning for two different conferences, one for the empowerment of young women, the other as a strengthening of a group of youth health promoters. But, also thrown in the time has been the recent elections in the country and Patronales, the week-long celebration of the patron saint of the city, complete with bullfights every afternoon. Some experiences are just too much to explain...Here´s a few for your imagination. (Pictures are on the way):

1. Imagine a crowd of like 35 grown men trying to wrestle, ride, pinch, smack, and generally aggravate a bull. I witnessed it during the bullfight...while standing on top of a dump truck.
2. Seeing any type of vehicle loaded down with people in the political party´s colors of purple and yellow after the re-election of the DR´s current president, Leonel Fernandez. It was a party!
3. Eating at the very least two mangoes every day. (I love everything about them...peeling them with my teeth and squeezing the juice out of the skin!) I plan to try all ten kinds!

The greater enjoyment of the past few weeks and months has come from the spiritual experiences. Although my examples may be specific, the themes are universal. Times of personal rest and reflection. Times when friends have said just the right words at the moments. Times of hugs, love, and laughter. What I´ve gained, not in any particular order of importance...

1. Rest is crucial. Like, just sitting back and doing things that I and only I enjoy. Seems obvious, but in this type of work, where everything is a joy, a beautiful struggle, rest becomes necessary. It not only helps recharge, etc. but it helps to just take it easy (cogerlo suave!) and...
2. Stay in and in-joy the moment. It´s difficult writing about this, because it´s something that you just do. (And, it goes against the agenda). Presence. Spirit. But, when you do or are in it, those amazing moments arrive more often, you jive with folks as well as with everything around in a cool energy. (Take a little of Him with you everywhere you go). My moments have involved star-filled nights and, you guessed it, mangoes. But, with a little less resistance to the flow of life, I know those moments will come more often. Which leads me to...
3. When you think of something that you need to do or should do, it´s probably cool to do it..a little analyzing. Regret is ugly and a nag. And, life in peace is like staring at a gem.
4. I love the folks who keep me afloat. You know who you are. I hope more time can be spent with you.

Case in point / Objective for the future: Who knew that my host brother, who has never attended my English class or even asked about it, is schooling his friends in words he´s learned from my random conversations?

Perhaps, more change will come from who I am than what I do. And it all evolves in the Now.

Carnaval!!

So, what do you do exactly?

Interestingly enough, I’ve received this question from a bunch of different people. After almost 6 months in the country (I wasn’t just at the beach, thank you very much), I think I’ve finally arrived to answer it.

Arrived? Yup.

It’d be great to give you some slogan of some master plan that we’ve been trained to execute. For example, “Peace Corps DR: We change young minds. We develop greatness.” (If so, then you might wonder about how I do that, especially given the above picture). It’d also be cool to give you a one-word easy answer that explains it all. “I teach.” (I actually don’t teach, but I’ve always wondered how that answer explains all that is in teaching…) Since there’s no easy answer, you’ll have to bear with me for part of the history…

Arrived? Yup.

As you all know, it’s been a journey to the town where I live. But, it’s been an even greater trip to get to know people within the community and learn the issues. I’m still learning…My “job” is directly related to those strengths and those needs within the community. You can say that our vision is to work with youth to make better decisions and to work with community organizations to improve their work with youth. But, what does that mean?

Let’s call my community where I live and volunteer Nosotros. The strengths of Nosotros are amazing. In comparison to other communities, Nosotros has resources that come through the Office of the First Lady and a huge international non-governmental organization. Our community has also fought for all that it has received (I’m talking about even the house that they’ve built) as most people have moved from the country into this larger city. Nosotros has resources that are the process of helping develop the community: a community center (for informational talks, community meetings), a school, a basketball court (a work in progress), and a library (welcome, new volunteer!). Nosotros, however, exists in one of the poorest provinces, is most affected by HIV/AIDS, and is listed as one of the communities with the lowest literacy rates, among other social factors. Of course, youth are not only at the center of these factors, but also can, have, and will be the major factors for its change.

So, what do I do? Where do I fit in?

First, I work with an existing youth group to facilitate more activities in the community and, at the same time, develop their team building and leadership skills. Right now, we’re planning. But, in the future, it could be crazy. We’re thinking of sports teams, a dance group, community clean-ups, and campaigns to raise funds for the…library. The library project was started by a previous volunteer who literally got it off the ground. Now, we’re working to finish the outside and inside walls (with stucco like stuff called empañete), floor, shelves, computers, books, books, and books!! While I’ll be working with other organaizations to make this a reality, almost like a community connection / project manager, I’ll also be working with the students to make reading groups, etc. Last (at least for the main things), I’ll be working with a group of multipliers to retrain them and have them form other groups that will go out and talk about not only HIV/AIDS, but youth health in general…

So, I still haven´t told you what I do...every day? Wake up - plan the day - see who I need to visit to make one of the things above happen- try to visit some people - eat lunch (it`s so much that it literally takes an hour) - let my stomach recover from lunch - prepare for the next nightly meeting- meet - hang out with the fam until bedtime...

There´s of course other things, but you get the gist...as time goes on we´ll get more aquainted with the barrio of Nosotros!

Felicidades!

Listo Para Viajar

So, the new year has come in with twists and turns in Quisqueya!! It's only fitting as I found myself ringing in the new year in front of a bonfire and an amazing azopao!

What are the Christmas and New Year's traditions here? Much is the same as in the States: big dinners with friends and family that arrive from parts of the country and even the world. Ok, really from the States. Although I wasn't travelling luxury style, in a nice Jeepeta, I was one of those who was travelling back to visit on my first host families. When I arrived, my host brothers were thrilled. First question: So, how are things in your community? Second question (esp. from the host moms and aunts): So, did you find a girlfriend over there?

Christmas was actually spent over games of basketball, sancocho, and a trip to the rio. Note to travellers to the DR: Never think a trip to a river is an easy thing. Here I am, in rubber foam sandals on all fours trying to scale rocks on the side of the river. Meanwhile, my host brothers are definitely imitating cliff divers- with no shoes.

New Year's was a little more chill- back at my site outside listening to bachata and merengue. My youth decided to amanecer- stay up till 7 in the morning. I couldn't hang; I went to bed. The coolest part: when the clock struck twelve, we went to all the families and gave hugs. More than just your spend-it-with-someone-special New Year's, everyone hugged and shouted out to everyone...In everything, you definitely feel a strong sense of family. I could feel it in the hugs of my family during Christmas and in the amount of phone calls to family (Mami en el campo!) afterwards...

One tradition that doesn't exist in the States: Los Reyes Magos! January 6th is basically the day to give gifts to the kids. It's not combined like our Navidad...Kids receive cars, dolls, bikes, etc. But, the running joke seemed to be from the adults: Donde esta mis Reyes? OR Where's my gift? Some of Luis' classic responses:

1. I still have to get it. Wait 'till later on tonight. What would you like? Presidente, Bohemia?

2. Reyes? Yo no se donde estan...

3. Reyes? Hay un verdadero rey aqui....

You've probably been asking: when do you start working? After these vacations, things are almost up and running...